You always hear people talk about the importance of the First Impression. It's true that the first impression is important, and it's significantly more important when it's the only interaction you ever have, but recently I've come to doubt the importance of the first impression.
I've know many people that I didn't like at first, and whom I am now very good friends with. Likewise, I have had many people that I have interacted with wonderfully for years, and whom I can no longer get along with at all. Did this first impression really weigh as much as I thought it would? I don't think so. Maybe I'm just a weirdo, with a short memory, but I certainly think that the last interaction I had with someone weighs a lot more in my overall impression of that person.
To me, you are the weighted average of my feelings about all of our interactions, with the highest weight on the most recent. You can always earn a good impression, regardless of interaction in the past.
One of my many first impressions:
When I was 13 I moved to a new school. On the first day of school, in my first ever Spanish class, I made an awkward first impression. The teacher asked me, in front of the whole class, if I wanted to stay in the 8th grade class or move down to the 7th grade class. I kind of locked up and didn't know what to say. I didn't really want to move down to the 7th grade class, but I didn't know if I would be able to catch up to this class, so I just sat there with a goofy look on my face, unable to respond. This was my first impression on the entire class. Years later, some of my friends were talking about that moment, and I realized that for many of them, that was my first impression. It wasn't a good one, and it certainly isn't what they think of when they think of me. But there it was. Not very glorious, but of little consequence. :)
Another important first impression:
One day, I joined some friends on a trip to the river. On the way, we ran into another group of people with a common friend. We decided to float down the river together, after all: the more the better. For some reason there was one girl that really caught my eye. I had the cliche feeling where you have butterflies in your stomach, and you are totally afraid to interact. I played it pretty cool, I didn't lock up... I just had a series of those moments where you catch each other's eye in the right way, and you just have a quick moment where you are communicating a lot without saying much. Little did I know, she had mistaken me for the long term boyfriend of another person in the group I was with, and kept thinking to herself, "Eww, her boyfriend is a making eyes at me... what a perv". Long story short. I am going to marry her on January 11th, and if she loves me half as much as I feel like she does, or half as much as I love her, then the first impression was totally irrelevant.
Monday, December 10, 2007
Sunday, October 14, 2007
Requirements for Success
It has been a while since I've blogged about anything, and it's been even longer since I've emo-blogged. :) So here's one that is about as emo as they come.
Failure is defined as a lack of success.
Success is defined as an event that accomplishes its intended purpose.
In order to accomplish an intended purpose, you must have one.
...and in order to know that it has been accomplished, you must first know what it is.
A Person who is a failure is a person with a record of failing
In brief, it is impossible to succeed without identifying a purpose, and if you don't succeed, then you fail. And if you have a record of failing, then you are a failure. And even though "Failure" is just a word, we sure know that we don't want to be one.
With this line of reasoning, the message is clear:
Failure is defined as a lack of success.
Success is defined as an event that accomplishes its intended purpose.
In order to accomplish an intended purpose, you must have one.
...and in order to know that it has been accomplished, you must first know what it is.
A Person who is a failure is a person with a record of failing
In brief, it is impossible to succeed without identifying a purpose, and if you don't succeed, then you fail. And if you have a record of failing, then you are a failure. And even though "Failure" is just a word, we sure know that we don't want to be one.
With this line of reasoning, the message is clear:
You must identify a purpose. Only then can you accomplish it. And only in accomplishing it can you be successful.Maybe that purpose is as simple as have fun, or make money, or maybe its quite complex. but if we at least identify why we are doing things, then we can identify how successful we are in accomplishing that purpose. Then we can know that we are successful, and that we are not failures.
Thursday, August 23, 2007
Let there be Light
Since the day I bought my house, there has aways been this funny rattle every time you open or close my front door. The rattle was quickly diagnosed as coming from the light fixture on the exterior wall outside the door. The light fixture had taken years of abuse, been heavily weathered, and painted by the lazy last owner. it also had a tendency to flicker from time to time, which makes the house seem really ghetto.
I decided it was time to replace the fixture, so I went out and bought a new one, which only cost around $30.00 at home depot. While I was there, I also bought a new fixture for the back porch for $15. The back porch was mounted fine, but had stopped working a month ago, and you could get it to work for a little bit by un-mounting it and shaking it. I had verified that the wiring coming from the house was fine, so decided that I would just try replacing the fixture there too.
I got home and replace the back porch fixture very quickly and painlessly. It looked great. When I unmounted the front fixture, it was a different story. It had been poorly installed years ago because the box was too close to some of the trim on the house, and the fixture wouldn't fit over it. So instead of fixing the problem, they mounted it to the siding with a short wood screw. If you've ever played with the sidin on these houses, you know it's like thick cardboard, and that was all that was holding this thing up. (well that and the wiring :-p ) This resulted in a very poor mount, that allowed the fixture to rattle when there was the slightest vibration in the wall. It also allowed for pests to move into the electrical box. I had to remove their nests before I installed the new stuff :-/
To achieve the desired mount, I decided to remove a small section of the trim, using a dremel, so that the fixture would fit on the box correctly. It took a little extra time, but the fixture is mounted very solid, and it no longer rattles when you open and close the door.
Here is the final result... all I have to do is touch up the paint, which will happen in the fall:
I decided it was time to replace the fixture, so I went out and bought a new one, which only cost around $30.00 at home depot. While I was there, I also bought a new fixture for the back porch for $15. The back porch was mounted fine, but had stopped working a month ago, and you could get it to work for a little bit by un-mounting it and shaking it. I had verified that the wiring coming from the house was fine, so decided that I would just try replacing the fixture there too.
I got home and replace the back porch fixture very quickly and painlessly. It looked great. When I unmounted the front fixture, it was a different story. It had been poorly installed years ago because the box was too close to some of the trim on the house, and the fixture wouldn't fit over it. So instead of fixing the problem, they mounted it to the siding with a short wood screw. If you've ever played with the sidin on these houses, you know it's like thick cardboard, and that was all that was holding this thing up. (well that and the wiring :-p ) This resulted in a very poor mount, that allowed the fixture to rattle when there was the slightest vibration in the wall. It also allowed for pests to move into the electrical box. I had to remove their nests before I installed the new stuff :-/
To achieve the desired mount, I decided to remove a small section of the trim, using a dremel, so that the fixture would fit on the box correctly. It took a little extra time, but the fixture is mounted very solid, and it no longer rattles when you open and close the door.
If you look at the brown paint, that's where the old fixture was. The new brass that you see is a mount that I'm using with the new fixture. you can see where I cut out a round section of the trim to fit the fixture better.
If you look closely, you can see one old hole where the screw ripped out of the siding, and one newer hole where they repeated the same mistake a second time :)... ERRR
Here is the final result... all I have to do is touch up the paint, which will happen in the fall:
Wednesday, August 22, 2007
Suicide Lane Junkies
Perhaps it is the nature of my drive home, or maybe the conditions I observe exist everywhere, but the drivers that I observe day in and day out seem notoriously bad.
I take the surface streets home because I work less than six miles from home, but because of the mountainous terrain, the traffic conditions are always crowded, and usually people get antsy when they are stuck in one place for too long. To make matters worse, the neighborhoods that I drive through are largely populated with people of bellow average income. Which, regardless of it's merit, I associate with wreckless driving.
Every day, I would wait patiently in traffic, as I watched hundreds of my fellow drivers breaking the law, and using the suicide lane in a manner that helps justify it's nick name. instead of waiting in traffic, until it was legal to enter a left turn lane, they would just drive 50mph down the suicide lane. This always made me cringe, especially when you would see others doing it, because they felt justified after seeing their peers doing it.
I was overjoyed when I saw that they had added some barricades to the suicide lane to prevent this. So much so, that I took my camera out to take a picture of it for the blog. But I had a hard time getting a shot of it, because so many people were driving around it, into oncoming traffic, to try to get home quicker. I switched to video mode for your entertainment.
Drive safe, And remember that you are accountable for your actions, not the idiots that you imitate.
I take the surface streets home because I work less than six miles from home, but because of the mountainous terrain, the traffic conditions are always crowded, and usually people get antsy when they are stuck in one place for too long. To make matters worse, the neighborhoods that I drive through are largely populated with people of bellow average income. Which, regardless of it's merit, I associate with wreckless driving.
Every day, I would wait patiently in traffic, as I watched hundreds of my fellow drivers breaking the law, and using the suicide lane in a manner that helps justify it's nick name. instead of waiting in traffic, until it was legal to enter a left turn lane, they would just drive 50mph down the suicide lane. This always made me cringe, especially when you would see others doing it, because they felt justified after seeing their peers doing it.
I was overjoyed when I saw that they had added some barricades to the suicide lane to prevent this. So much so, that I took my camera out to take a picture of it for the blog. But I had a hard time getting a shot of it, because so many people were driving around it, into oncoming traffic, to try to get home quicker. I switched to video mode for your entertainment.
Drive safe, And remember that you are accountable for your actions, not the idiots that you imitate.
Thursday, August 09, 2007
Pine trees in the desert
Before I start, let me mention that I am guilty of what I'm about to rant about. I'm not trying to be a hypocrite, I'm just ranting :-p
So here it is: What's the deal with people trying to maintain mid-west yards in the desert? We should be afraid of running out of water, and we should stop dumping it on plants that shouldn't naturally live here anyway.
I have large trees, lush bushes, and a green grass in my yard, so I should be the last one to talk. When I was young, and slightly more ignorant, I thought it was great. It was so green. But over the years, I've been becoming more of a naturalist, and I'm starting to feel really guilty about it. A few months ago, I had some issues with my irrigation system, so I turned it off, and would only water manually, and that month, I used 19,000 gallons less water than most months! That is so much water.
We waste all this water on these plants, that grow like crazy, then we collect their droppings, and we trim them, and fill our landfills (or if we're lucky compost them) and the water just goes into the air as they decompose.
But worse than all other plants, (and here's where I really rant) is the PINE TREE.
My neighbor has pine trees in his back yard, and all year long, they shed needles. Pine needles are pretty unique. They are highly acidic, so they take really long to decompose, and they actually prevent other leaves from decomposing. They are also really thin, but quite strong, so they will fit perfectly through the baskets in your pool system, and proceed right into the pump where they, being as strong as they are, jam it up great.
Pine trees also drop pine cones. Pine cones are pretty, but they are also light enough to get sucked into my leaf hog, and strong enough to shred the fan that causes the suction :) So when I try to suck up the pine needles, I tend to wreck my leaf hog.
Last weekend, I decided that I had had just about enough of all these pine tree droppings, so I racked them all up, and sorted them out from all the rocks, that I wanted to keep in my rock garden, and filled the trash. Then I put the rest of them in a pile so I could throw them away after the trash was collected. Here is a quick photo of the second trash bin full of pine needles. Keep in mind that this is the second bin full of them, and this bin was completely empty when I started:
So if you are building, and you have the opportunity to make this choice without spending a ton of money, please consider keeping it natural. Plant plants that are native to the region, and avoid throwing away our water.
So here it is: What's the deal with people trying to maintain mid-west yards in the desert? We should be afraid of running out of water, and we should stop dumping it on plants that shouldn't naturally live here anyway.
I have large trees, lush bushes, and a green grass in my yard, so I should be the last one to talk. When I was young, and slightly more ignorant, I thought it was great. It was so green. But over the years, I've been becoming more of a naturalist, and I'm starting to feel really guilty about it. A few months ago, I had some issues with my irrigation system, so I turned it off, and would only water manually, and that month, I used 19,000 gallons less water than most months! That is so much water.
We waste all this water on these plants, that grow like crazy, then we collect their droppings, and we trim them, and fill our landfills (or if we're lucky compost them) and the water just goes into the air as they decompose.
But worse than all other plants, (and here's where I really rant) is the PINE TREE.
My neighbor has pine trees in his back yard, and all year long, they shed needles. Pine needles are pretty unique. They are highly acidic, so they take really long to decompose, and they actually prevent other leaves from decomposing. They are also really thin, but quite strong, so they will fit perfectly through the baskets in your pool system, and proceed right into the pump where they, being as strong as they are, jam it up great.
Pine trees also drop pine cones. Pine cones are pretty, but they are also light enough to get sucked into my leaf hog, and strong enough to shred the fan that causes the suction :) So when I try to suck up the pine needles, I tend to wreck my leaf hog.
Last weekend, I decided that I had had just about enough of all these pine tree droppings, so I racked them all up, and sorted them out from all the rocks, that I wanted to keep in my rock garden, and filled the trash. Then I put the rest of them in a pile so I could throw them away after the trash was collected. Here is a quick photo of the second trash bin full of pine needles. Keep in mind that this is the second bin full of them, and this bin was completely empty when I started:
So if you are building, and you have the opportunity to make this choice without spending a ton of money, please consider keeping it natural. Plant plants that are native to the region, and avoid throwing away our water.
Monday, August 06, 2007
youtube.com vs brightcove.com
Ben recently pointed out that the quality of the video on youtube was less than ideal. I totally agree after watching them again.
When I watch them locally, the videos look pretty good. Especially when you consider they were taken from my point and shoot camera. So in the interest of a blog post, I thought I'd compare what I upload to youtube.com, with brightcove.com (a slower, less popular video service)
Here are the results:
I think that there is actually quite a big difference in quality. The other thing that's worth noting is that with both of these services, there is a delay after you upload before you can view. And when I uploaded to birghtcove, it said:
This was shocking. It didn't really take hours... but it did take a little longer than youtube (to the naked eye)
The other thing is that youtube seems to serve up their content faster. I guess you win some you loose some :-p
Enjoy!
**ALSO! the brightcove code doesn't render right in my firefox! WOW... They need to fix that ASAP, or they will fail big time :-p
***Thanks to Mikey from the Brightcove Team for noticing what was broken, and telling me how to fix it. This problem was more of my fault (or maybe bloggers fault: I'm not sure), and less of brightcove's.
Also, I did modify the code a little bit to make this window fit better in the blog...
When I watch them locally, the videos look pretty good. Especially when you consider they were taken from my point and shoot camera. So in the interest of a blog post, I thought I'd compare what I upload to youtube.com, with brightcove.com (a slower, less popular video service)
Here are the results:
I think that there is actually quite a big difference in quality. The other thing that's worth noting is that with both of these services, there is a delay after you upload before you can view. And when I uploaded to birghtcove, it said:
We've got your video and are processing it to make it look great.
This might take a few hours, but we'll let you know by email when it's ready.
This was shocking. It didn't really take hours... but it did take a little longer than youtube (to the naked eye)
The other thing is that youtube seems to serve up their content faster. I guess you win some you loose some :-p
Enjoy!
**ALSO! the brightcove code doesn't render right in my firefox! WOW... They need to fix that ASAP, or they will fail big time :-p
***Thanks to Mikey from the Brightcove Team for noticing what was broken, and telling me how to fix it. This problem was more of my fault (or maybe bloggers fault: I'm not sure), and less of brightcove's.
Also, I did modify the code a little bit to make this window fit better in the blog...
Friday, August 03, 2007
Some Colorado Videos
I'm trying out You Tube to host some videos. from the recent Colorado hike. I'm not sure how much I like it, and it takes FOREVER to upload, but I think it's pretty decent.
Check this one out:
More videos on my youtube account.
Check this one out:
In this video, I am making my way along the ridgeline of Mt Yale as it starts to hail on us above 14,000 ft. I had to put my camera away pretty quick because it's not waterproof, but you get the idea. This ridgeline is literally a straight drop on both sides, and though it's pretty timid here, you have to use all 4 limbs at times to stay on the face of the mountain, and the wet rocks don't help :)
I know that a friend had a water proof camera, I can't wait to see what he was able to record.
In this video, i just do a quick 360 from the top of Mt Huron, another 14ner in Colorado.
More videos on my youtube account.
Tuesday, July 31, 2007
Monsoon
I went outside yesterday afternoon to find that it was pouring rain. Normally I wouldn't care at all, except today I was supposed to help Katie move. and most stuff doesn't like to get wet :)
So after work, I decided I would swing by the store and pick up some trash bags, so that we could try to keep as much dry as possible. After 2 hours or being stuck in traffic, and going less than 3 miles total, I decided to park and walk the remaining half a mile to Safeway.
I found that the street was flooded up to my knees at some points, and entire roads had been shut down because of flooding: which explains the traffic :) I made it to the safeway only to find that they had no power, and closed early. I'll tell you what though: I haven't had a good excuse to play in a puddle for a long time, so it wasn't all bad.
Here is a quick shot from rural and broadway:
So after work, I decided I would swing by the store and pick up some trash bags, so that we could try to keep as much dry as possible. After 2 hours or being stuck in traffic, and going less than 3 miles total, I decided to park and walk the remaining half a mile to Safeway.
I found that the street was flooded up to my knees at some points, and entire roads had been shut down because of flooding: which explains the traffic :) I made it to the safeway only to find that they had no power, and closed early. I'll tell you what though: I haven't had a good excuse to play in a puddle for a long time, so it wasn't all bad.
For those of you who think my shoes are funny, I have one thing to say:
:-p
Here is a quick shot from rural and broadway:
Colorado
I spent the last week chilling in Colorado. I went backpacking for 5 days, and spent the weekend before and after in the city. The backpacking trip covered about 55 miles and over 12,000 ft vertical, and it was a blast.
Here is a quick photo from the trip:
Here is a link to all the photos (there are way too many, and I have to sort through them still :-)
On a funny note, we took the bus to boulder, and spent the day hanging out there, when I saw something great for my brothers, Mike & Al. The two of them have been trying to make the perfect pizza, and I saw just the thing to help them get there... Guys you just need to build one of these:
Here is a quick photo from the trip:
Taken from Lake Ann Pass, Collegiate Peak Wilderness Area, CO
July 24, 2007
On a funny note, we took the bus to boulder, and spent the day hanging out there, when I saw something great for my brothers, Mike & Al. The two of them have been trying to make the perfect pizza, and I saw just the thing to help them get there... Guys you just need to build one of these:
Also, those are real Italians running it... so they might have a natural advantage.
Wednesday, July 18, 2007
Breaking in the Boots
I bought some new boots for the CDT hike, since I noticed the soles on my old ones were starting to wear through.
I used the opportunity to try out some different types of leg braces, and get a little more endurance training in before I ship out.
I tried two new leg braces. The one I found for my left knee worked great. It is a band that wraps around your leg just at the base of the knee cap. It holds the kneecap up so that it isn't rubbing on the tendon behind it all day long. I worked great.
The second kind I tried (on the right knee) was for the IT band (connecting your knee and thigh on the outside) It did nothing :-/ Maybe I was wearing it wrong, I'm not sure.
The hike was good though overall. I carried a 45lb pack to try to reproduce what we will be encountering, and I think it went pretty good. It was way hotter here than it will be in Colorado, but the altitude is much lower, so you win some, you loose some.
I was very lucky during this hike, and I hit a number of great views because of the clouds. I've included a few here.
I used the opportunity to try out some different types of leg braces, and get a little more endurance training in before I ship out.
I tried two new leg braces. The one I found for my left knee worked great. It is a band that wraps around your leg just at the base of the knee cap. It holds the kneecap up so that it isn't rubbing on the tendon behind it all day long. I worked great.
The second kind I tried (on the right knee) was for the IT band (connecting your knee and thigh on the outside) It did nothing :-/ Maybe I was wearing it wrong, I'm not sure.
The hike was good though overall. I carried a 45lb pack to try to reproduce what we will be encountering, and I think it went pretty good. It was way hotter here than it will be in Colorado, but the altitude is much lower, so you win some, you loose some.
I was very lucky during this hike, and I hit a number of great views because of the clouds. I've included a few here.
The Wrath of the Mailman
For those of you who are following the mail man situation, here is a nice follow up. Yesterday, I gt home from work, and saw the wrath of the mailman!
This is not for the faint of heart... so please make your children close their eyes.
Here is is; The Wrath of the mail man!
This is not for the faint of heart... so please make your children close their eyes.
Here is is; The Wrath of the mail man!
Taken July 17, 2007
in front of my house
Ok, so maybe it was just the wind, or the garbage man set it down wrong, or whatever... but maybe it was the wrath of the mail man... So just in case, I decided to trim my bush this morning. I wouldn't want the mail man to get too ticked off, he does have a lot of power after all, imagine how much a mail man could hurt you... He could just throw away those tax documents, and bills, and before you know it you could be in a tough situation. Probably better to work with the system on this one :)
Tuesday, July 17, 2007
Geocaching Troubles :-/
I was testing out some new features that I'm working on with the Geocache Navigator, so I decided to try to find a cache at Lunch.
For those of you who aren't nerdy enough to know what Geocaching is (Good for you!), this might not make any sense :) For those of you who do, THIS POST CONTAINS SPOILERS
I was trying to find I'll trade ya! and I couldn't find it for the life of me. This is the second cache in two days that I have just not been able to find. I would like to blame the heat, but I don't think that would be fair :)
Here is the rough area of the cache... there are a few good places to hide one
I'm pretty sure it was supposed to be in with the palm trees. The hint was "Van Accessible"... and I think I figured out what that ment :)
but all I found was a bunch of liter. The last cache that I couldn't find was also surrounded by liter. I'm thinking that I didn't find them because there was so much trash around... like I didn't want to sift through all the trash to find the cache :) I really don't remember liter being a problem when geocaching before... Is it getting worse?
For those of you who aren't nerdy enough to know what Geocaching is (Good for you!), this might not make any sense :) For those of you who do, THIS POST CONTAINS SPOILERS
I was trying to find I'll trade ya! and I couldn't find it for the life of me. This is the second cache in two days that I have just not been able to find. I would like to blame the heat, but I don't think that would be fair :)
Here is the rough area of the cache... there are a few good places to hide one
I'm pretty sure it was supposed to be in with the palm trees. The hint was "Van Accessible"... and I think I figured out what that ment :)
but all I found was a bunch of liter. The last cache that I couldn't find was also surrounded by liter. I'm thinking that I didn't find them because there was so much trash around... like I didn't want to sift through all the trash to find the cache :) I really don't remember liter being a problem when geocaching before... Is it getting worse?
Monday, July 16, 2007
Going Postal
Photo of my mail box:
Photo of a note found in my mailbox July 5, 2007:
Photo of note found in my mailbox July 14, 2007:
I'm going to come back and comment more on this after lunch, but how funny! :) I think they should check this mail man out before he goes postal!
...
Sorry, either that was a long lunch, or I'm a day late getting back to this :)
So I got this letter from the mail man, telling me that my bush was interfering with the delivery of my mail. So I took a close look at the bush, and I couldn't see what he meant. I couldn't get the bush to interfere with the mail box at all. So I didn't change it.
So now, I am not getting my mail :)
It is odd though... my bush now appears to be dying, and I can't help but think that there is some sort of funny business going on :) Did the mail man poison my bush? Can you feel the anger in his last note? He's so mad that you can hardly even read it. Just compare the handwriting from the original to the latest :) wow.
I decided that there are 3 options:
Photo of a note found in my mailbox July 5, 2007:
Photo of note found in my mailbox July 14, 2007:
I'm going to come back and comment more on this after lunch, but how funny! :) I think they should check this mail man out before he goes postal!
...
Sorry, either that was a long lunch, or I'm a day late getting back to this :)
So I got this letter from the mail man, telling me that my bush was interfering with the delivery of my mail. So I took a close look at the bush, and I couldn't see what he meant. I couldn't get the bush to interfere with the mail box at all. So I didn't change it.
So now, I am not getting my mail :)
It is odd though... my bush now appears to be dying, and I can't help but think that there is some sort of funny business going on :) Did the mail man poison my bush? Can you feel the anger in his last note? He's so mad that you can hardly even read it. Just compare the handwriting from the original to the latest :) wow.
I decided that there are 3 options:
- Trim the bush back a bit
- Leave the bush, and talk to someone at the post office about it
- rip out the bush, run it through a wood chipper, and stuff the chips into the mailbox.
Wednesday, July 11, 2007
White Lies
Always try to be honest.
When you lie, or even when you are misunderstood and choose not to correct it, you put yourself in a situation where you either loose credibility, or are forced to dig a deeper whole by covering it up.
Covering it up of course is done by lying more, and more, each time growing in severity in order to cover all of your previous lies.
For those of you who know chronic liars, I feel your pain. I deal with at least one chronic liar more than once a week, and it's excruciating. Every time their lies get bigger, and I have to bight my lip to not call them out. one the rare occasion that I do ask questions about the lies, I'm either hit with bigger cover up lies, or they just change the subject.
I think that it is our pride that tricks us into continuing to lie, rather than admit that we were incorrect or misunderstood earlier. And this pride is much stronger when you feel threatened by those you lie too. I wish we could all somehow leave our pride out of life.
When you lie, or even when you are misunderstood and choose not to correct it, you put yourself in a situation where you either loose credibility, or are forced to dig a deeper whole by covering it up.
Covering it up of course is done by lying more, and more, each time growing in severity in order to cover all of your previous lies.
For those of you who know chronic liars, I feel your pain. I deal with at least one chronic liar more than once a week, and it's excruciating. Every time their lies get bigger, and I have to bight my lip to not call them out. one the rare occasion that I do ask questions about the lies, I'm either hit with bigger cover up lies, or they just change the subject.
I think that it is our pride that tricks us into continuing to lie, rather than admit that we were incorrect or misunderstood earlier. And this pride is much stronger when you feel threatened by those you lie too. I wish we could all somehow leave our pride out of life.
Tuesday, July 10, 2007
Good Morning
There was a very pretty cloud cover this morning, that started the morning off very nicely. But alas, I was still heading into work :(
I was running out of gas, so I had to stop here:
but I really wanted to be here:
This morning started on the right foot... I would try to stay on the right foot all day, but my balance is really no good, and I'm afraid I would fall over if I tried to hop along on one foot all day.
I was running out of gas, so I had to stop here:
but I really wanted to be here:
This morning started on the right foot... I would try to stay on the right foot all day, but my balance is really no good, and I'm afraid I would fall over if I tried to hop along on one foot all day.
Monday, July 09, 2007
More American Than Me
Let me apologize before you even start reading... I'm all over the board on this one. A.D.D. maybe?
So, I was on my way into work today, and I saw this guy working on some landscaping. He caught my eye because of his American bandanna. He probably just got it 50% off after the 4th of July, but it made me think about the recent immigration attention... I don't think that this man is less American than me. He might even be more American than me.
Now he's not enlisted in the army or anything, he's not risking his life, but he is doing a job for a more competitive rate than the rest of us would be willing to do it for. And while most of us are in a panic about securing our borders to prevent illegal immigration, illegal immigrants are busy doing the work that we feel we're too good to do, or we wouldn't get paid enough to do.
America is a nation, founded on the idea of freedom. This freedom is what we should be looking to protect, not the purity of our nation.
I think that most people (mostly white people) are more worried about the color of the skin that makes up America's population. I think that too many white people are afraid that America will become brown. Here's an idea: if you're so afraid of being outnumbered, STOP KILLING YOUR BABIES.
I think that the mentality that allows people to kill their own children, is in fact the same mentality that creates fear of minority growth. It's this idea that you need to fit into a picture perfect image in order to achieve happiness: One boy, one girl, in a safe, white neighborhood, with a picket fence, and the nicest house on the block.
Not only is this wrong, it's disastrous. Once you step all over people to try to gain this theoretical happiness, and once you have everything on your list, you'll realize that is didn't bring you any happiness was anyway. All you've done is destroy the happiness of others to get there. And once you're there, and still unhappy, you will start to become depressed, questioning the point of life, and consider suicide. which brings up another good idea: STOP KILLING YOURSELVES.
To be honest, I would prefer a world where we embrace a free market... capitalism..., and let the best, and cheapest have the job. If you are afraid that you're job can be done better and cheaper by someone else, than you'd better improve. Don't worry about protecting your cushy job that you are under qualified for, worry about improving, and being all that you can be. and Maybe you'll find happiness along the way.
So, I was on my way into work today, and I saw this guy working on some landscaping. He caught my eye because of his American bandanna. He probably just got it 50% off after the 4th of July, but it made me think about the recent immigration attention... I don't think that this man is less American than me. He might even be more American than me.
Taken on 48th st South of Guadalupe
July 9th 2007
America is a nation, founded on the idea of freedom. This freedom is what we should be looking to protect, not the purity of our nation.
I think that most people (mostly white people) are more worried about the color of the skin that makes up America's population. I think that too many white people are afraid that America will become brown. Here's an idea: if you're so afraid of being outnumbered, STOP KILLING YOUR BABIES.
I think that the mentality that allows people to kill their own children, is in fact the same mentality that creates fear of minority growth. It's this idea that you need to fit into a picture perfect image in order to achieve happiness: One boy, one girl, in a safe, white neighborhood, with a picket fence, and the nicest house on the block.
Not only is this wrong, it's disastrous. Once you step all over people to try to gain this theoretical happiness, and once you have everything on your list, you'll realize that is didn't bring you any happiness was anyway. All you've done is destroy the happiness of others to get there. And once you're there, and still unhappy, you will start to become depressed, questioning the point of life, and consider suicide. which brings up another good idea: STOP KILLING YOURSELVES.
To be honest, I would prefer a world where we embrace a free market... capitalism..., and let the best, and cheapest have the job. If you are afraid that you're job can be done better and cheaper by someone else, than you'd better improve. Don't worry about protecting your cushy job that you are under qualified for, worry about improving, and being all that you can be. and Maybe you'll find happiness along the way.
Wednesday, July 04, 2007
4th of July 2007
Happy Independance Day!
Today is the fourth of july, and I thought I was being tricky by going up to prescott for a few days. I figured I'd escape the heat a little bit... unfortunatly it is hot even up here. I'm told it's supposed to be about 20 degrees cooler up here. All I know is that if that's true, the people in phoenix are way worse off :)
But whether it's cold, hot, rainy, or dry, I hope that everyone has a nice relaxing independance day. Enjoy your freedom. :-p
Today is the fourth of july, and I thought I was being tricky by going up to prescott for a few days. I figured I'd escape the heat a little bit... unfortunatly it is hot even up here. I'm told it's supposed to be about 20 degrees cooler up here. All I know is that if that's true, the people in phoenix are way worse off :)
But whether it's cold, hot, rainy, or dry, I hope that everyone has a nice relaxing independance day. Enjoy your freedom. :-p
Taken at My Parents Condo in Prescott, AZ
July 4, 2007
Monday, July 02, 2007
Humphrey's Peak
Katie pointed out that I was a little late on my post this morning (Thanks for the kick, I appreciate it). I've been annotating the Humphrey's Peak hike me and my dad did this weekend.
here is what I have so far:
I hope to have it polished up soon, but I'm distracted by the planning of a Prescott Hike for Katie and I to do tomorrow morning.
Humphrey's peak was pretty cool. It had crowds like you would see in phoenix on trails like squaw peak, or camelback mountain, but it was certainly more difficult. You start at the bottom of the snow bowl ski resort, cross the slope once, and enter the woods. You stay in the woods for miles, and you don't exit it, until you rise above the tree line. The trees of the woods provide great protection from the sun, and from the wind. The ground is very solid, but gentle on your knees.
Once you cross the tree line (at around 11,500 ft) you start to get plenty of views, but you also get a lot of sun, a lot of wind, and very loose rocky ground that makes for much more difficult hiking. around every corner is another false summit, and you constantly feel like you are being tricked. As you rise higher and higher, the air starts to thin. I had a pretty decent time ajusting, but my heart rate did start to rise faster than normal, and it was no uncommon to get a little dizzy from time to time. generally a quick break would cure the symptoms.
Once you get to the top (after about 3,500 ft) you get a view for hundreds of miles. The wind are pretty wild, but there are some rock piles that provide good shelter from it.
Check out the video:
Over all it's a great hike, and If I lived in flagstaff, I would hike it frequently. (at least to the tree line)
Taken on Humphrey's Peak, AZ
June 30, 2007
here is what I have so far:
I hope to have it polished up soon, but I'm distracted by the planning of a Prescott Hike for Katie and I to do tomorrow morning.
Humphrey's peak was pretty cool. It had crowds like you would see in phoenix on trails like squaw peak, or camelback mountain, but it was certainly more difficult. You start at the bottom of the snow bowl ski resort, cross the slope once, and enter the woods. You stay in the woods for miles, and you don't exit it, until you rise above the tree line. The trees of the woods provide great protection from the sun, and from the wind. The ground is very solid, but gentle on your knees.
Once you cross the tree line (at around 11,500 ft) you start to get plenty of views, but you also get a lot of sun, a lot of wind, and very loose rocky ground that makes for much more difficult hiking. around every corner is another false summit, and you constantly feel like you are being tricked. As you rise higher and higher, the air starts to thin. I had a pretty decent time ajusting, but my heart rate did start to rise faster than normal, and it was no uncommon to get a little dizzy from time to time. generally a quick break would cure the symptoms.
Once you get to the top (after about 3,500 ft) you get a view for hundreds of miles. The wind are pretty wild, but there are some rock piles that provide good shelter from it.
Check out the video:
Over all it's a great hike, and If I lived in flagstaff, I would hike it frequently. (at least to the tree line)
Friday, June 29, 2007
The weekend
Sorry guys, I forgot my camera at home this morning :-/
Today I'm taking off work a little early for two reasons:
After I take care of that, I'm packing up and heading up to flagstaff. Me, my dad, and my brother John are going up to hike Humphreys peak, via Humphrey's Trail at Snow bowl. I originally wanted to make it a 2 day hike, going through the wilderness area from the other side via Weatherford Trail, but time didn't allow for it, and people didn't want to carry that much gear. For this hike, I will plan to carry water, snacks, lunch, a jacket, some hiking poles, and a beanie. I really think hiking poles are dorky, but I've been repeatedly told that they are a necessity, so I'm going to try to get used to them on this trail ans see if they help much.
I had a really hard time finding good trail data for this hike, so I decided I would have to record our trip, and publish it online. You should be able to see it online before Monday. I'll post a link by then. Here are the four sites I'm working off of:
If all goes well with this hike, and if time allows, I think I'm going to try to do a follow up trip and hike to the summit again via Weatherford Trail.
Today I'm taking off work a little early for two reasons:
- Katie left her car at my house and it has a flat tire that I want to replace
- We're heading up North, and I need to finish packing
After I take care of that, I'm packing up and heading up to flagstaff. Me, my dad, and my brother John are going up to hike Humphreys peak, via Humphrey's Trail at Snow bowl. I originally wanted to make it a 2 day hike, going through the wilderness area from the other side via Weatherford Trail, but time didn't allow for it, and people didn't want to carry that much gear. For this hike, I will plan to carry water, snacks, lunch, a jacket, some hiking poles, and a beanie. I really think hiking poles are dorky, but I've been repeatedly told that they are a necessity, so I'm going to try to get used to them on this trail ans see if they help much.
I had a really hard time finding good trail data for this hike, so I decided I would have to record our trip, and publish it online. You should be able to see it online before Monday. I'll post a link by then. Here are the four sites I'm working off of:
- http://www.fs.fed.us/r3/coconino/recreation/peaks/humphreys-tr.shtml
- http://www.toddshikingguide.com/Hikes/Arizona/Coconino/Coconino6.htm
- http://www.surgent.net/highpoints/az/coconino.html
- http://americasroof.com/az.shtml
If all goes well with this hike, and if time allows, I think I'm going to try to do a follow up trip and hike to the summit again via Weatherford Trail.
Thursday, June 28, 2007
Pretty Random: Misc/Knees/Root Canal
Sticking with the idea of posting a photo daily, Here is one for today:
There is nothing interesting about this photo... it's of a fountain in front of the office, because I forgot my camera at the office and couldn't take a photo of anything better :-p I'm really starting to get boring with my photos. I will plan to get much more interesting next week. :-p
The idea of the photo-a-day thing is not really about the photo, it's about forcing a routine. Tricking myself into continuing to write a blog for anyone who happens to be bored enough to read it :)
On another note, I started using the workout room at Al's condo, and I did like 40 minutes on the stair machine, followed by stretches, followed by a lot of leg extensions on a small weight, and today my knees are really feeling a lot better. I'm going to try to do it a little more often and see if the problem goes away. My theory is that your quadriceps have four muscles, and some of those parts don't get isolated in your natural workouts. I'm hoping that if I isolate them in the gym, they will do a better job of holding my knee together the rest of the time. :) I'll keep you posted on the results.
As a follow up to the Root Canal, I have nothing to report... I'm really feeling fine so far. I can't really put a lot of pressure on the tooth yet, but it doesn't hurt if I don't chew on it. So far, so good.
Taken at the office
June 28, 2007
There is nothing interesting about this photo... it's of a fountain in front of the office, because I forgot my camera at the office and couldn't take a photo of anything better :-p I'm really starting to get boring with my photos. I will plan to get much more interesting next week. :-p
The idea of the photo-a-day thing is not really about the photo, it's about forcing a routine. Tricking myself into continuing to write a blog for anyone who happens to be bored enough to read it :)
On another note, I started using the workout room at Al's condo, and I did like 40 minutes on the stair machine, followed by stretches, followed by a lot of leg extensions on a small weight, and today my knees are really feeling a lot better. I'm going to try to do it a little more often and see if the problem goes away. My theory is that your quadriceps have four muscles, and some of those parts don't get isolated in your natural workouts. I'm hoping that if I isolate them in the gym, they will do a better job of holding my knee together the rest of the time. :) I'll keep you posted on the results.
As a follow up to the Root Canal, I have nothing to report... I'm really feeling fine so far. I can't really put a lot of pressure on the tooth yet, but it doesn't hurt if I don't chew on it. So far, so good.
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